Understanding the Male and Female Aspects of Ourselves

Sex and psychic energy is explained by Betty Bethards Inner Light Foundation
In order to both give and receive love fully, you have to feel worthy of love from within, both the male and female aspects of yourself.
In order to understand what sex is all about we have to know something about our own energy and how we are experiencing it. Most of us know what it feels like to be turned on sexually: there is a powerful current or sense of desire that can almost overwhelm us. It is something we can’t rationalize. To know it, we have to experience it. But when we are experiencing it, there is no mistake that it’s a real feeling. And that’s just in your second chakra! Imagine what you would feel if this energy intensity were moving throughout all of your chakra centers at the same time!

You as Male-Female

Each one of us is both male and female, knowledge and intuition, yin and yang. We choose to be one sex or the other this lifetime in order to help us balance the masculine and feminine, the strength and sensitivity within us, in order to move our souls forward. We are bisexual beings. Which cultures we are living in, what attributes are ascribed to in a particular sexual role also plays a large part in our choice. Masculine and feminine actually cannot be separated when viewed from a perspective of a total person; however, we have learned to associate the masculine with assertiveness and strength and the feminine traits with passiveness and sensitivity.

This concept of being both male and female goes back thousands of years, in mythology, astrology, alchemy, and many other esoteric disciplines. The goal of humankind’s evolution is to reunite the male and female, symbolized in an act of sexual intercourse. But the real synthesis occurs between the male and female aspects of the individual self. It is only when this perfect blending within occurs that one feels whole, at one with themselves, others and the universe.

Thus sex is much more than passion or the animal instinct to procreate. It is a drive within each of us, the attraction of the male and female aspects within the self, to reunite. The force that propels us to become whole from within is the most powerful expression of energy in the universe, and this is the energy of Love. We must learn to love ourselves, to unite this energy within, before we are truly free to love others.

When Betty was first lecturing, she promoted meditation and how to meditate, reincarnation and karma, the meaning of death, loving yourself and self-healing techniques. But then her Channel started having her channel content about Sex and Psychic Energy. Betty was NOT comfortable with the subject. She said, “I tried to explain to my Channel that I just wasn’t the person for the job when they told me that this lecture was going to be added to my repertoire.” I said, “I’ll go fight violence and ignorance and teach meditation, but leave me out of this sex business.”

To make a long story short, Betty lost that argument and embarked on a great period of learning guided by her teachers. They emphasized the important and urgency of telling people that the misuse of sexual energy is causing much destruction and violence in the world today. It is this second chakra/sexual energy that is preventing us from achieving a world of peace. Her teachers said that if we ever want to get it together in our country, to make a success of our marriages, to learn how to love one another, to get the economic and political systems on the right track, we’ve GOT to understand how to use and properly direct sexual energy.

When people are outraged by homosexuality, lesbians and the LGBTQ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer or questioning) movement, Betty would maintain that as long as there is a commitment in a love one-to-one relationship, the particular sexual genders are not that important. Commitment to our marriages and maintaining a sexually monogamous relationship will allow us to balance our energies and unfold our greatest potential as mankind.

When we really begin to experience ourselves and our partners using both higher and lower Chakra centers, we find fulfillment. Boredom leaves us forever, and life truly becomes a process of learning, growing and loving. Realizing our sexual potential means unfolding our psychic and love potential as well. We can direct this second chakra energy into higher centers of creativity and begin to realize ourselves as infinite beings.

Just as an FYI, the book, Sex and Psychic Energy by Betty Bethards, was found in Elvis Presley’s bathroom on the day of his death.

Learn more about understanding energy, learning about our energy centers, the different cycles of our lives (puberty, menopause, etc.), heart-to-heart unions, techniques to enhance sexual sensitivity and the different types of marriages in her book Sex and Psychic Energy available below. In addition, Betty speaks about sex and psychic energy in her audio book download available below.

Sex and Psychic Energy Betty Bethards Inner Light Foundation
Sex and Psychic Energy by Betty Bethards

Sex and Psychic Energy

By Betty Bethards

“Sex is beautiful, exhilarating, and helps us to stay young in body, mind and spirit,” Betty would explain.”

Sexual energy is your life force and we have to learn how to direct it both for fulfillment in sexual love and pleasure but also in awakening our higher psychic and intuitional abilities. Through understanding this energy you can create a dynamic love relationship that helps you discover who you are as a person. This in turn helps you grow and provide a stability within you in these times of accelerating change.

Betty teaches in the Sex and Psychic Energy book that the misuse of sexual energy is causing much destruction and violence in the world today. This is what is preventing us from achieving a world of peace. Her teachers said that if we ever want our country to succeed, if we want to make a success of our marriages, to learn how to love one another, to get the economic and political systems on the right track, we’ve got to understand how to use and properly direct sexual energy.

Audio download of Betty Bethards seminar on Sex and Psychic Energy
Audio download of Betty Bethards seminar on Sex and Psychic Energy

Sex and Psychic Energy

By Betty Bethards

$18.00

This live recording is Betty Bethards speaking about Sex and Psychic Energy. She explains the 7 energy centers called Chakras and what they mean.  We are all sexual beings throughout our entire lives.

Each of you chose your body and each of us is a unique individual. What is within you is what will determine how easy or difficult your life will be and how far you can go to advance your soul in this life time. It’s the intuitive part in us that can draw anything to us and Betty explains how to help yourself to be more intuitive. Our intuition is the God within us. Your thoughts, words and actions create your reality. She explains that you want to use your energy creatively. Meditation, affirmations and visualizations and using our dreams all help to get our energy up so that we can see and hear what is going on so that we can change our lives. Your lessons will repeat until you learn them. 

You can feel Betty’s energy coming through the recordings and her wisdom on Sex and Psychic Energy is timeless. People have said that they listen to her seminars over and over and learn something new every time. 

Each seminar has two recordings: Side 1 and Side 2. This seminar is available in two .wav files.