How to Be Your Own Guru

Be Your Own Guru by Betty Bethards Inner Light Foundation
Be Your Own Guru

Betty Bethards gave us the tools to help each of us learn to be our own Guru. Through her seminars, books and audio recordings she taught that our purpose on earth is to grow in knowledge, wisdom and to love while we are on this earth. We have free will so no one can do this for us. Everyone must find their own path, their own way. We are all accountable for our every thought, word and deed in our lives.

While on earth each of us needs to take control of our own lives, to be our own Guru and to make our own decisions. To do this you need to be grounded in a firm awakening of love energy. It may sound “corny” but that’s the truth as Betty taught.

That is why it is crucial to keep enlightening your awareness through practicing meditation. Your perception of life with meditation will come from higher and higher levels, your love energy growing stronger, and your motives becoming purer. One can always ask for insight and learn from all your brothers and sisters, but one must also be brave enough to follow what he feels.

We must accept personal responsibility for getting in touch with the God-self within!

It is fine to be drawn to people who have charisma, for this is nothing more than high energy. But instead of basking in their energy and thinking how wonderful they are, you should be inspired to awaken your own energy to a higher level. Learn what they have to teach and move on. You are in a universe of equal beings and each one of us can teach another.

It doesn’t matter whether we are talking about healing, reincarnation, prosperity, sex and psychic energy, or improving communications…. everything stems from an awareness of self. The only way we can grow and improve our lot in life (prosperity) is through changing our inner perspective.

You will find that meditation, besides putting us in touch with the God center of our beings, the Guru within, has an obvious effect on our daily lives.

Three Levels of Consciousness

  1. Rational
    This is the intellectual level. We see the world through our five senses. This level keeps us from walking in front of a truck while it’s traveling down the street and helps us to earn a living. But the rational level is useless in understanding our higher, spiritual realities.

  2. Psychic level
    The Psychic level opens the door into an expanded perception. Too many people get stuck in the phenomena of the psychic level. Accuracy of predictions is very low on this level. The psychic level has nothing to do with how to live a better life or expand your consciousness. Mystic teachers warn that this level is a trap.

  3. Mystic Level
    The Mystic is psychic but this level extends far beyond in understanding, awareness and in the application of knowledge. The mystic is the level of self-responsibility and self-directness.

Be Your Own Teacher

Don’t get sucked into the Psychic level – be your own teacher, your own guru. Don’t look outside yourself, look within. You are the light – you have it inside of you if you use the tools to develop it: meditation, dreams and prayer.

With meditation you can be still and know God from within. We are not separate from God or from one another.

A drop of water from the ocean can’t feel the power or the force of God. But your power lies in realizing that the force behind God is the Unity of Love. Remember, if you are in doubt, the simple way is the best.

Be your own teacher; be your own guru. Don’t look outside yourself, look within. You are the light. And the best way to look within is by using Meditation, remembering and interpreting your dreams properly and using prayer (affirmations and visualizations).

Reincarnation suggests that a person is basically spirit or consciousness which takes on bodily form and is born lifetime after lifetime. Reincarnation is the natural, normal process of the evolution of the soul. The soul is the etheric or energy body, the eternal part of our beings; it is neither male or female, but an integration of energies. You have layers or energy bodies within the soul which you shed as you go to higher levels of spiritual awareness. At physical death you shed the earth body as a coat, which is the lowest of the energy vibrations.

Once you have learned your lessons on the earth plane, having gained balance mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually, you then go to the celestial plane and live in a much higher energy level.

Look inside to be your own guru Betty Bethards Inner Light Foundation
Look and listen inside to be your own Guru

Each soul chooses how fast it wishes to progress. Between incarnations and in the dream state at night, one receives teachings. When the soul returns to earth, to time-space awareness, it brings back knowledge and training and works to put it into practical application while in the body. While on the other side, each being designs a plan for growth before an incarnation, what it hopes to achieve in that lifetime and what karma it wishes to work out. The soul is free once it incarnates to go ahead with the plan or change its mind. Your teachers, of course, will be there with you encouraging you to get on with the program. But you are free to do whatever you want to do with an incarnation.

Karma refers to the law of cause and effect which governs one’s experiences over collective lifetimes and within the individual lifetime. Karma means that as you sow, you reap. We control our thoughts by our words, thoughts and actions. 

To effectively work with dreams we must recognize that we control our own destiny through our thoughts, words and deeds. We have to relinquish our martyr and victim mind sets and accept responsibility for what is going on in our lives. Then we will benefit from dreams as a tremendous teaching source.

Betty would say, “Before we are born we devise our own plan before birth. We have teachers both in and out of the body to nudge us to follow our plan.” She also said, “It is the principle of individual responsibility which underlies all the teachings coming from my channel.”

Many religious philosophies and belief systems try to make the search for truth difficult. But the truth is simple and always has been. Every answer you ever need to know on any subject lies deep within yourself! The key is to be still, go within, and bring forth the answers. Bring forth the curative energy yourself; heal your own physical, mental and spiritual being. Once that is done, then bring that curative energy to the world.

We are given problems because they are really hidden gifts for us to solve
We are all given the same gifts. It's up to us in how we use them.

The Gifts We Are Given

  • The Gift of Joy:
    To be enthusiastic about every experience
  • The Gift of Wisdom:
    Clarity in all our choices
  • The Gift of Courage:
    There is nothing to fear. Everything is a lesson and you can’t fail unless your don’t try
  • The Gift of Guidance:
    Around the clock team (a Guardian Angel and a Team of teachers) who love you unconditionally and is with you always to help you through your journey
  • The Gift of Satisfaction:
    Praising yourself. You don’t have to prove yourself to anyone
  • The Gift of Forgiveness:
    Let go of all of the hurts by accepting responsibility in each situation. Read more about Forgiveness
  • The Gift of Dreams:
    Dreams help to steer you on your course
  • The Gift of Imagination:
    Imagination helps you to create anything you want!

There is no such thing as a problem without a gift for you at the same time. It’s tough to see the gift when you are in the middle of a huge problem but if you look, you will see it. Problems present themselves because you need their gifts.

Ask and Ye Shall Receive

The saying “Ask and Ye Shall Receive” is truly a dynamic process of the Universe.

Sometimes the process of asking can get bogged down on several levels due to:

  1. Lack of clarity in what we really want to know or poorly defining the problem.
  2. Fear of knowing the answer.
  3. Fear of action and/or change.
  4. Lack of seriousness (“It’s really not that important” or “Maybe it’s none of my business.”).
  5. The habit of confusion or inaction.
  6. Unwillingness to change regardless of the answers received.

Answer questions about yourself to learn insight on how to remove Stumbling Blocks.

If you would like to read more about how to be your own Guru, a link to Betty’s  book, Be Your Own Guru, is available below. In addition, if you would like to hear Betty talk about being your own Guru, a link to her audio download is also available below.

Be Your Own Guru Betty Bethards Inner Light Foundation
Be Your Own Guru by Betty Bethards

Be Your Own Guru

By Betty Bethards

Be Your Own Guru offers a common sense message of how to find your way through life. It’s a message of unsurpassed challenges, tremendous hope and a barrel full of fun. It show us that as you sow, you reap. In her folksy, down-to-earth way Betty underlines that the only place to look for answers is within. Sitting on mountain tops and running after gurus is not what is in this book.  Betty teaches that we need to be actively involved in working with our fellow human beings to create a world that works for us and for everyone. If we don’t, we just won’t have a world to worry about.

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Betty Bethards seminar on Be Your Own Guru
Audio download of Betty Bethards seminar on Be Your Own Guru

Be Your Own Guru

By Betty Bethards

$18.00

This is a live, historical recording of Betty Bethards talking to an audience on how to be your own Guru. She gives you tools enabling you to be able to raise your energy and therefore allowing yourself to be open to your team of teachers and lessons throughout your daily life.

Betty has a down-to-earth common sense approach to life. She was a life coach before life coaches were in vogue. She promotes meditation, affirmations and visualizations and using your dreams to help YOURSELF achieve better self-understanding.  Once you “get it” and start applying her teachings, life is easy to figure out.

Her publications and lectures have helped millions of people in their search for self-knowledge, growth and insight. With guidance and advice from Betty, you can learn to hear and see what is happening in your daily life and therefore change to make your life better.

Each seminar has two recordings: Side 1 and Side 2. This seminar is available in two .wav files.